The worth of been a friend

By Bill A Hamilton
More than 85% of life satisfaction comes from a
good relationship. It’s a fact. If you think that you
can get true satisfaction without having a good
relationship, then you are utterly wrong.
In a good relationship, you are not just a good friend
of your husband. You are his secret desire. You have
a deeper level of emotional & sexual connection
with him. He hears your every word, feels your
every emotion, and satisfies your every sexual
desire.
After studying the lifestyle of several happy
couples, and after studying the psychology of men
& women, I’ve figured out that there are 4 important
habits which are possessed by almost every happy
couple. These habits not only make a relationship
better but also elevate the level of interest between
couples.
Habit #1: Better Default Mode
What’s your default mode? Do you trust and forgive
each other on a constant basis? Or, do you keep on
fighting about money, sex, and bad habits?
A better default mode can solve 70% problems of
your relationship. Studies show that happy couples
always have a better default mode. They keep on
filling every second of their lives with fun, romance,
and love. Their habits & activities earn peace and
happiness. They build a real future and form deep
emotional & sexual connections.
On the other hand, average couples have a negative
default mode. They keep on fighting about finances,
sex, and bad habits. They don’t resolve their
problems and often confront communication hitch.
Furthermore, genuine misunderstandings, sooner or
later, break down their relationship.
A better default mode always makes a good
relationship. If your default mode is negative,
immediately get out of it. Make your default mode
better and fill it with positivity.
Habit #2: Mental Attitude
According to Napoleon Hill, “A positive mental
attitude is the starting point of all riches.”
There is no doubt about it, your happiness, success,
and wealth depends on your mental attitude. In
other words, your mental attitude has the greatest
importance in your life. It has the power to include
success in your blood and move you closer to your
goals. It can not only make your thoughts supreme
but also give you eternal floods of happiness.
Especially, in a relationship, the rewards of a
positive mental attitude are beyond measure. It
helps you focus on the positive side. It brings peace
of mind and forms true companionship. The habits
of recognition foster in your relationship, and your
man begins to feel for you from his heart.
Hundreds of authentic studies & researches
discovered that people with positive mental attitude
are always more likely to succeed at every stage of
life.
If you want to make your relationship better,
develop a positive mental attitude. Focus more on
what your man does right. Motivate him and
compliment his positive actions. He’ll automatically
start looking for ways to earn your recognition and
connect with you on a very deep level.
Habit #3: Today is Special
One scientific study has established that 50% of
your happiness is controlled by your deliberate
activities and outer circumstances. In a way, this
study proves that you have the power to make your
everyday special, in the relationship.
I agree that living a happy life seems wonderful in
theory, but in reality, it’s not that easy to have
sustained special moments in your everyday life.
Because, sometimes your mood swings, sometimes
you face a very tough day, sometimes you get
stuck in financial problems, and sometimes you
confront work-related stress.
Each and every couple of this world deal with these
types of problem, but only successful & good
couples tackle with these problems well. They
understand that today is the only day that matters.
So, they make their each day special & the
masterpiece.
There are millions of things you can do for making
each day of your relationship special. For example,
watch a romantic movie together, enjoy dark
chocolates, make a special meal, or pay your
partner a compliment in front of people.
Habit #4: Read More Books
If you don’t read books, you’ll never discover the
hidden surprises of your life. You can’t even
imagine the benefits that reading great books can
bring to your life. All the elite people perceive very
well that reading books are eminently important for
improving their life and relationships.
Each time you read a new book, you understand
your man well, you make your relationship better,
you embrace new thoughts, you solve problems
effectively, you improve your lifestyle, and you get
answers of life’s big questions… Reading books is
one of the best investments of time and money you
ever make.
There are many wonderful & interesting relationship
books which introduce clear strategies for making
your relationship better. For example:
“The Problem with Women is Men” by Charles J.
Orlando.
“The Five Love Languages” by Gary Chapman.
“Act like a Lady, Think like a Man” by Steve Harvey.
Take Action:
So, if you want to make your relationship better,
Have Better Default Mode.
Develop Positive Mental Attitude.
Make your everyday special & the masterpiece.
Read more good books.

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